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I would never have thought that watching porn would be considered cheating, but what if your partner would rather watch porn than have sex with you. Now imagine that going on for a year and a half? Now would you consider it cheating.

I just read that yesterday on the Judge Jeanine Pirro show (looks like one of those real courtroom tv shows) a married couple explored the issue of porn -- is it cheating or just plain normal?

Here are some interesting facts:

• Every day $89 per second is spent on porn.
• 72% of porn viewers are men.
• 260 new porn sites go online daily.

That is a lot to take in, I don't think I am doing my part in keeping up those stats.... Come on girls 72% of porn viewers are men... we can't let that continue, we want our fun too.... Sandi

It's the end of an era, for women at least. In August, Playgirl's editor in chief Nicole Calwell announced that Playgirl Magazine is going all-Web. First known as "the magazine for women", and then "entertainment for women" is almost gone after 35 years! Was it really a magazine "for women", or was is more for gay men to fantasize about getting that straight man? Playgirl magazine, mainly run by men, was filled with pictures of penises even though the women editorial staff tried to also show photos of other parts of the male body to which women are attracted. Now don't get me wrong I do enjoy looking a nice penis, but I also get that tingling feeling looking at a nice butt, strong shoulders, and sexy eyes (to mention just a few of my secrets). Maybe if they gave us "fickle" women more to enjoy instead of telling us we want MORE PENIS, then the magazine may still be around for a few more years.

What this all means is that the Jan/Feb 2009 magazine will be the last print issue and it comes out Nov. 18 (that's next month), so don't miss it. I am sure it will be a collectors edition worth buying and I didn't want you to miss it. I don't know about you but I never read it much, but when I did I only read it for the articles :-) .... Sandi

I am trying something a little different today, please let me know what you think by adding your comments below. I am going to start letting you know about news items which may be of interest to you rather than just telling you about all of the updates to the site.

Caliente Nudist Resort in Florida has given up it's charter with the American Association for Nude Recreation. The AANR was not happy to learn that Caliente's public relation director is scheduled to lead a workshop promoting the co-existence of swingers and nudists at Swingfest 2008.

While most swingers enjoy being open about their sexuality many just enjoy the freedom to express themselves by wearing little or no clothing. Naturist clubs are not know for their sexuality, although many first time visitors are surprised when they find that out.

The AANR feels that Swingers and Nudists cannot co-exist. What right does a group who constantly defends their right to be open and free to express themselves have to criticize the Swingers community? There are many Swingers who started out as Nudists, got comfortable with themselves to become swingers and still enjoy visiting Nudist resorts. Does that mean that Swingers do not know how to behave? Do we have to have sex with someone just because we see them Naked? Yes, I agree there are a few who seem to have trouble remembering that they are in a public place and need to conduct themselves accordingly, but there are also non-swingers who have the same problem. There are idiots everywhere, telling a Nudist Resort that they are not allowed to approach Swingers and conduct a workshop on how we can co-exist is just plain prejudicial and should not be tolerated. But that is just my opinion, what's yours?.... Sandi