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 The December/January issue of Tryst Magazine is finally at the printers, but there is no reason you to have to wait to see it. So check it out online, just click on Magazines from the Member's Blue menu. Once the printer delivers the new issue to us we will send out the subscriptions right away (should be out 28). Yes, we are working on the new issue of Tab Magazine right now and will put it online as soon as it goes to the printers. As always, if you don't want to read it online you can order a print Copy for yourself, of either magazine, and I promise to mail it out as soon as the printer delivers them to me.

Almost forgot, New Contest Time. Today I hid the banner (see below) somewhere even tougher, as you keep finding it too fast. Be the first person to find the banner, somewhere in the Member's Area, and you could be our next winner. But you need to click on it to win it.  Remember... see it... click on it... and WIN The DVD. It really is that easy.

Ready? Set? Start hunting. Good Luck, but don't find it too fast or I am going to have to think of a new way to do this contest... Sandi

Since we have been back, first we had to get caught up on all the mail and put out fires which we couldn't do from Vegas, we usually have 2 or 3 a week. Then we have been busy getting Tryst Magazine to the printers, online version should be ready by Monday, as well as a new contest. For your viewing pleasure over the weekend (while you wait for the new Tryst) Ted added some more pictures... no not of the Fetish Fantasy Party we went to (that is coming soon), but to his Hot Erotic Photo Gallery, you can take a sneek peek by taking a tour of his site or see them all with your Platinum membership. New photos are in:

• Army Brats - will make some of you want to enlist
• Bondage - can't talk right now all tied up
• Face Sitting - can't think of a better place to relax
• Group Girls - just hanging out with some friends & having sex
• Naked Aerobics - what a way to workout (I only workout topless)
• Pierced Pussy - I hear it makes you orgasm easier
• Soccer Moms - makes me want to play soccer
• Two Guys and a Girl - nice way to have a threesome

As always, they are all marked with a NEW tag, but feel free to wander around there are a lot of pictures to enjoy... 538,830 hot erotic photos to be exact... Sandi

So, Friday I was setting up the contest, announcing it here and in the member updates, and then just went back to double check everything was working ok (did you know I am a perfectionist at heart?), and low an behold we already had a winner. Congradulations to stephen40 for winning an Adult DVD compliments of Sinsations , XcitementDvd & Adult411.ca.

Today I hid the banner (as seen below) somewhere a little tougher to find. Hopefully not too tough though. Be the first person to find the banner, somewhere in the Member's Area, and you could be our next winner. But you need to click on it to win it.  Remember... see it... click on it... and WIN The DVD. It really is that easy.

Well this update is not quite as exciting as the last few have been... We dropped our friend Bill at the airport Sunday morning and decided we needed a couple of days to rest up from all of the partying. Lots of shopping, got some new club clothes which I am planning to wear when we hit some more clubs Wednesday (Hush Club) and Friday (The Green Door).

Ted wanted me to tell you about all of the cars I would not let him buy at Barrett Jackson... like the brand new dragon drag racer that sold for $7000 (now I have no idea what he would do with it), and the 1989 Porsche 911 Carrera that was stolen from Nicolas Cage and then completely restored, that sold for $52,000 (now that one I did have to touch just to say I did). Plus too many others to mention, a lot of which sold for less than $20,000, needless to say he wants to come back next year with a bidders pass this time.... Sandi

Six new Sex articles are now online.... see I told you we would be doing some work while we were away. I figured with Halloween just around the corner the first one would be of interest to many:

• Costume Parties: Not Just For Kids Anymore
• Women In Swinging
• Giving Out Your Personal Information
• Chatting Online with Women & Couples
• Vibrator Play For More Than One
• Talk Dirty Tricks - Good & Bad

Now onto the Vegas update I promised you yesterday... The Saturday "Perfect LV" party was held at the top of THEHotel (between Mandalay Bay & the Luxor). So you can imagine the incredible view, well the view inside the party was just as incredible... the guests were beautiful, well dressed and friendly people. But, as seems to be normal in most clubs the music was too loud to be able to talk without yelling, but it is a regular night club with the "Swingers" party taking over a corner of the club so they don't have much control over the music.

The washrooms did however give me the most unique experience I have ever had... now get your mind out of the gutter... no I did not have sex in the washroom. You need to picture this... it is pretty dark in there (not sure how a lady is supposed to fix her makeup when she can't really see herself in front of the mirror). Then you go into the bathroom stall which is a fair size room with a wooden door and a dim spot light which highlights the toilet (don't worry I will not be getting graphic here). The toilet faced the floor to ceiling windows looking out over the strip and another hotel, so you basically do your business facing this window looking over everything. Definitely gave me a "I'm being watched" feeling... now I am sure it is one way glass but I could not shake the weird feeling it gave me :-).

Aside from the washrooms, which if you can get over the being watched feeling is pretty cool, there was one major complaint.... the cost of the drinks. I guess I am too thrifty with my money, but when Ted handed me a glass of wine and told me it was $20, I thought that was a little much for 2 drinks, but it is a great view. Then he laughed and said that it was $20 EACH for a glass of wine... I can buy a bottle or two of wine for that. But again... Great View... guess you have to pay for it somehow.

See you tomorrow for another Vegas update.... Sandi

Ted and I were sitting out on the back deck last night having a drink, at the house we are staying at in Vegas and he asked me if members could change their password. And up until now the answer was "Yes, but only for paid members". Now I just finished changing the programming so that all members can change their password. Nothing worse than having to remember some random letter password given to you.

To change your password just log into the members area and click on "My Account" in the top right hand corner, then "Change My Password" and pick something easier for you to remember. It's that easy.... Sandi

• Anal Toys - These girls sure do like putting there toys in dark places
• Big Breasted Moms - For those who prefer the bigger breasts
• Brides - See what happens behind the Wedding scene
• East Indian Ladies - Exotic and Erotic at the same time
• Fetish Saran Wrap - Does this work like a sauna to lose weight?
• Hot Chicks - Now how can you go wrong?
• Monkey Love - I can relate to this since I have a stuffed monkey friend
• Naked Trampoline - Girls going up and down and up and you get the picture
• Orgy - Now who doesn't like all that sex?
• Power Tool Toys - And I just use mine to fix things around the house
• Real Dolls - These dolls are amazing, Ted wants one now
• Self Pics - Works better when you have help
• Skinny Chicks - Skinny is good, but so is having some meat on your bones
• Triplets - Now is three really better than one? Ok, I withdraw the question
• Wet Pussys - Now that's nice

Looks like I am on an upgrade binge.... First the new server and now I just upgraded the chat to the newest version, which includes the new Send Image function so you can show your pic to any other chatter you like.

Let me know how you like the upgrades, or you can even give me some suggestions on other things you would like to see here. You can add a comment anytime, member or not. Thanks for your input.... Sandi

The new issue of Tab Magazine (your Fetish Fantasy / Gay & Bi Source) is just back from the printers and I just finished putting it online for you. I know I am a little late, but the new server upgrade took a lot more of my time than I thought. To check it out just click on Magazines from the Member's Blue menu.

If you want a printed copy instead of reading it on your computer, you can get One Here. Don't worry I always mail it in a discreet envelope.

Also, we finally have a winner for our latest contest, topforfun won it yesterday. Now I will have to think of a new spot for the banner to go.... Sandi

Looks like Ted and I will be testing the new server this weekend and then the actual upgrade for you will happen on Monday. So enjoy your weekend without fear of me resetting anything on you :-). Also, don't worry anything you do on the site will be transfered to the new server before we go live, so you will not lose anything you do..... Sandi

ps. No one has won the contest yet for the adult DVD, and I thought it was in a very easy place this time.... so start hunting.

We are getting a new server installed today... Duel processors, 4 gig of ram, Raid 5, much larger hard drive, and a whole bunch of other stuff that probably doesn't mean much to you but it does to me.... Is my geekness showing???

The bad news is that we will have to put the site down during the changeover. Should be no longer than 3 hours (they promised me 2 so I added a 1 hour buffer). Will try to give you some warning here before it happens, it was supposed to be today, but it doesn't look like. Looking forward to seeing you on the new server.... Sandi

Yes, we have started a new costest. Ladydeanna won the last one and now it is your turn. Don't know how it works... well this is the easiest contest you have ever heard of... just be  first person to find the banner shown below somewhere in the Member's Area.

Click on it and it will tell you if you WON! See how easy that is.

The Adult DVD is compliment of Sinsations , XcitementDvd & Adult411.ca.

Are you ready? Well then log in and start hunting. Good Luck... Sandi

 The October issue of Tryst Magazine is at the printers but I didn't want you to have to wait so I put it online for you this morning... Once the printer delivers them to us (in about a week) we will send out the subscriptions right away. To check out the pdf file of this issue just click on Magazines from the Member's Blue menu, and don't worry the new Tab Magazine will be online soon. As always, if you don't want to read it online you can order a print Copy for yourself, of either magazine, and I promise to mail it out as soon as the printer delivers them to me.... Sandi

Well this is the easiest contest you have ever heard of. All you have to do is be the first person to find this banner below somewhere in the Member's Area.

Click on it and it will tell you if you WON! See how easy that is.

The Adult DVD is compliment of Sinsations , XcitementDvd & Adult411.ca.

Are you ready? Well then log in and start hunting. Good Luck... Sandi

• 360 View
• Amateur Guys
• Bathroom Girls
• Caption Photos
• Fetish Socks
• Hand Jobs
• Naked Bowling
• Nella
• Spanking Him
• Tickling

• Visual bondage (heighten your senses when you cannot see)
• How to... Swing! The Basics (or could be a refresher course)
• Advanced Vibrator Moves (now we're getting into some dirty stuff)
• Quickie Hand Job Tips (whether you are by yourself or having fun with someone else)
• Sex positions for Tantric Sex (still trying to learn some of these techniques)

Check them out in the Member's area, login Here. Enjoy.... Sandi

• Badminton_Babes
• FemDom
• Naked People Art
• Porn Behind The Scenes
• Suicide Girls
• Three Girls and a Lucky Guy

• Advice on the best sex positions
• The History Of The Breast (and who doesn't like breasts?)
• Fun beyond the clitoris (5 surprising Sex Hot-spots to discover)
• Aphrodisiacs - Fact or Myth? (don't spend money on things that just don't work)
• What Would Ann Landers Say? (how to be polite in this rude world and stand out)

• Anal
• Bikini Babes
• Cow Girls
• Inter-Racial
• Older Guys Young Girls

• Tryout
• Shy Young Wife
• The Fortune Cookie
• Becky's First Training

Yes, it is true. I just finished up with the August issue of Tryst Magazine and put it online for you right away... Once the printer delivers them to us we will send out the subscriptions right away. To check out the pdf file of this issue just click on Magazines from the Member's Blue menu, don't forget to also check out the new Tab Magazine while you are there. As always, there is still time to get a print Copy for yourself, of either magazine, and I promise to mail it out as soon as the printer delivers them to me.... Sandi

Bad stuff first, somehow yesterday after I picked up email from the weekend (and luckily answered a few of them), my email program crashed and I lost everything since about noon on Friday until noon Sunday. So if you sent me an email over the weekend and have not heard back please send it again. Sorry for the trouble but I guess that is what computers are all about :-)

Now for the Good/Fun stuff, while I was busy trying to get email fixed Ted added some Jokes to the Member's area (69 of them to be exact -- guess he likes that number for some reason). He thought I could use a smile, and it worked... Sandi

• How To Find Swingers At A Non-Swingers Bar
• What To Expect At A Hotel Swinger Party
• Swinging vs Cheating
• Sex Guide For Large Couples
• Swinger Hints (some quick tips for all of us)
• He's uncut, what do I do?

• Asian Ladies
• Balloons
• Breast Sex
• Drawings
• Just Sexy
• Loving Couples
• Nice Tan Lines
• Redheads
• Squirters