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- The set up of the Swing Canada website is a lot easier to use than this one. But you have THE BEST magazine out there. Have fun.
- just to let you know we are very disappointed , on 2 different occasions we have received emails direct from other people who have read our add in your Mag , and we did not authorize it , please remove our email address from your Mag !!
Thank You
- From a Bronze Member: Dear Sandi: Could you please let bronze members # 024739 know that I'm interested in contacting them to talk about meeting! I wasn't able to contact them. I hope you don't mind me requesting this. I really want to make contact with them. They are exactly who I'm looking for. Thank
you so much.
- Does not look like I can find anything for single guys that are straight. Been a faithful husband to high school sweetie and now I just want a casual fun. Am I at the right place because it's no use signing up if no one wants me.
Steve
- Hi Sandi,
I love your site and buy your mag sometimes and I have recently signed up for the online registration and wanted to give it a try.
I only signed for bronze and I have noticed that most of the ads can't be replied to by bronze members. Am I missing something or is this how it is supposed to be.
Chris
- Hi Sandi and Ted:
I know this is probably a "lost cause", but could you somewhere,
somehow, encourage members who place an ad to say something more
than:
We are a discreet couple that seek same for friendship and perhaps
more
No age, no height or weight, no interests, no location - just a
complete waste of time and computer space!
Thanks, I feel better for having got that off my chest!
Keith
- All replies to ads on my site are handled internally and you need to log into my site to pick up you TrystMail and you will get a notification sent to the Email address you registered with each time you receive a reply
- Hello Sandy
I'm a guy and I'm looking to find a female partner for the swinging
lifestyle....I checked out your group but almost everyone is from
Canada. I'm in NYC. So...What have you heard adultfriendfinder.com?
Before I give out my credit card info (because I've heared that some
sites just take your money), I'd like to know if they are a reputable
business. Your site is the first site that I've seen that I feel I can
trust. This is why I'm asking you.
Thank you Sandy..I'm Chris and a Bronze member
- Do Gold members get a copy of the mag, with their subscription? I am looking forward to seeing it in print, I took a look at it online.
- I placed an add but went to add something and it told me to wait a week but I had not included a picture yet and wont let me add one .I thought you would want pic adds?
- Hi Sandi and Ted,
Please do not give out or sell out my email address to anyone or any
company. The amount of spam and unsolicited emails is becoming a bother. I
am not sure what your policy is on this but I hope you will honour my
request.
- question, honestly, what are the chances of meeting
those that are as kinky and funloving as me, I mean can a single guy like myself get results from your site?? I only am trying the silver to see and if I see potential, you will get more $$ from me.
- Hi Sandi Are there ads other than direct e mail ads and if so how do we get to them? Thanks Bob
- Wondering why our ad stays on the first page and says updated today when we did not update it?
- I have resent my Password to myself a half dozen time and it has still not arrived... what's up?
- How long should it take to get my Login and Password Emailed out?
- I would like to exchange Links with Sandi. How do I do that?
- I forgot to write down pay login and password. Can you please send it to me again.
- How long should it take to get a reply if I send an Email to Sandi?
- What hours are your office open?
- Come on, Is there REALLY a "Sandi"?
- I am looking for Ted and Sandi's new e-mail address. I got a letter to look for it on the site, but I could not find it. I need it for their N;awlins in November registration.
Thanks!
Tess
- Hello Sandi,
We recently posted a ad up on your site, and we did it in a hurry with intentions of updating it later when we had more time.I just realized i could not update till august 6 ? Wanted to ad some pics, and update our ad a little ?
Can you help so we don't have to wait till next week ?
TY
- I am looking for a site where I will be ordered by my Mistress or master to perform fellatio on groups of males while I am dressed in lace panties and a bra. I will swallow all cum as per my master or mistress orders
- What advice can you offer a single Ontario Boy. Specifically should I seek out a swinging partner to be more successful ?
I always treat a female partner like a lady. It is not negotiable in my book. Some of your answers re do you swing with singles said a lot of Good about you. It was reassuring to someone who is seeking a good way to get his feet wet.
Perhaps that is not the greatest way to say it. Yes I am very much a novice.
I like and respect couples but a single swinging friend seems the best way to begin
- Sandi my wife and I would love to post some nude pictures of her on the Internet. Can you recommend a few good sites that are simple to use and don't require your own website to do so?
- Dear Sandi: First of all, let me say that you are an very attractive woman. I hope you don't mind me asking you this. I was wondering if you had any friends that would want a video shot of their sexual encounters? I am a professional cameraman who has been in the biz for the last 24 years. It's a fantasy of mine to do this. Of course , discretion, respect, and safety assured and expected. I really enjoy your site. Thanks!
- why is swing canada completely free and you only give us bronze members only 1 page we could spread the word quick start being competitive like everyone else
- Sandi, you have a great site here. As a couple new couple in the lifestyle we really like it. We have however one small gripe... We're from the NYC area. Your site has a TON of Canadian ads, and some upstate NY... But the NYC ads are few and far between.
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The set up of the Swing Canada website is a lot easier to use than this one. But you have THE BEST magazine out there. Have fun.
I have looked at SC, and I find the profile system very cumbersome.... You can't have the computer do ALL the work... I can find out more about a person reading their ad once, then I can reading their canned replies to point and click answers a hundred times... AND, it looks just like every other Swingers site out there... and it is, because the same guy wrote all the software.... Sandi
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just to let you know we are very disappointed , on 2 different occasions we have received emails direct from other people who have read our add in your Mag , and we did not authorize it , please remove our email address from your Mag !!
Thank You
I just checked your ad and it was set to show in magazine yes..... Here is the text....
Do you want your ad to be placed in the hard copy of my magazine for FREE as well as online?
(Note: Placement in the paper version of my magazine is subject to space availability).
Yes
No
By checking No, your ad will NOT be placed in my magazine as a TrystBox (snail mail) or Direct Email ad (with your email address printed).
I have changed it to no and removed it from the next issue.... I have also canceled any more replies to the TrystBox Ad (snail mail) that you had. I'm very sorry that you are so disappointed, but when you placed your ad... and every time you updated it you left the yes option checked (and the confirmation Emails sent out also say "Place in Magazine Yes" ) so I can't really see how this is my fault....but I fixed it..... Sandi
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From a Bronze Member: Dear Sandi: Could you please let bronze members # 024739 know that I'm interested in contacting them to talk about meeting! I wasn't able to contact them. I hope you don't mind me requesting this. I really want to make contact with them. They are exactly who I'm looking for. Thank
you so much.
I'm sorry, but you are going to have reply to them through my mail system. Thats the way that things work around here. If you were a Gold or Silver member you would be able to reply directly to them no matter what page there ad is on....... Sandi
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Does not look like I can find anything for single guys that are straight. Been a faithful husband to high school sweetie and now I just want a casual fun. Am I at the right place because it's no use signing up if no one wants me.
Steve
It can work, but it all depends on how you market yourself. If you place an ad "Male liking for females" it won't work.... (and yes I deliberately put the typo in) If you take some time and do it right.... and reply to some ads as a gold or Silver Member... it can work ... Sandi
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Hi Sandi,
I love your site and buy your mag sometimes and I have recently signed up for the online registration and wanted to give it a try.
I only signed for bronze and I have noticed that most of the ads can't be replied to by bronze members. Am I missing something or is this how it is supposed to be.
Chris
That is how it works... being a Bronze member is just like looking through the magazine on the store shelf.... if you want a better look, you need to buy it and take it home :-) .... it costs about a hundred grand a year to run the site... it needs memberships to stay alive and a Bronze membership is supposed to tease you enough to make you want to sign up.... Sandi
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Hi Sandi and Ted:
I know this is probably a "lost cause", but could you somewhere,
somehow, encourage members who place an ad to say something more
than:
We are a discreet couple that seek same for friendship and perhaps
more
No age, no height or weight, no interests, no location - just a
complete waste of time and computer space!
Thanks, I feel better for having got that off my chest!
Keith
You're right, it is a lost cause :-( .... and they are the exact same people that call my site a rip off because they don't get any replies :-) .... The worst ads are the ones that say " guy wit big dick lookin fer two tall attractive blonde's with big tits to fulfill my fantasy's pros need not apply" Trust me, I've seen almost the exact same ad (including the typos) many times.... Sandi
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All replies to ads on my site are handled internally and you need to log into my site to pick up you TrystMail and you will get a notification sent to the Email address you registered with each time you receive a reply
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Hello Sandy
I'm a guy and I'm looking to find a female partner for the swinging
lifestyle....I checked out your group but almost everyone is from
Canada. I'm in NYC. So...What have you heard adultfriendfinder.com?
Before I give out my credit card info (because I've heared that some
sites just take your money), I'd like to know if they are a reputable
business. Your site is the first site that I've seen that I feel I can
trust. This is why I'm asking you.
Thank you Sandy..I'm Chris and a Bronze member
I'm sorry, but I think your asking the wrong person.... Should you trust the competition with your money.... for sure... NO .... should you trust ME.... yes.... Sorry, but that is all I'm qualified to answer. All I can say is a site with 144 thousand members (or some other silly amount) has NEVER, EVER deleted a single user. On my site old users get deleted after 6 months. Thats why my membership numbers are at the very least.... honest.... Just like me :-) .... Sandi
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Do Gold members get a copy of the mag, with their subscription? I am looking forward to seeing it in print, I took a look at it online.
The magazine and the website are completely separate ( but completely interrelated :-) so a membership to one does not get you a subscription to the other. You can purchase a one year subscription for $40.00 but all it gives you is a hard copy of the PDF file that you have already looked at.... If you would like to order a copy of the magazine it is $10.00 (taxes and shipping included) and you can do it online or you can pick it up at 90% of the adult stores right across Canada .... Sandi
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I placed an add but went to add something and it told me to wait a week but I had not included a picture yet and wont let me add one .I thought you would want pic adds?
I do, but as a Bronze ( free) member you are only allowed to make changes to your ad once a week. If you send me the photo along with your user ID number and Ad number I will attach the photo for you...or, of course you can join as a Gold or Silver Member and update your ad and photo as often as you like, all by yourself ( she says in a shameless plug to get you as a member :-) Sandi
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Hi Sandi and Ted,
Please do not give out or sell out my email address to anyone or any
company. The amount of spam and unsolicited emails is becoming a bother. I
am not sure what your policy is on this but I hope you will honour my
request.
Never have, will.... A hate spam as much as you... maybe more... I get at least 250-300 spam a day....Sandi
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question, honestly, what are the chances of meeting
those that are as kinky and funloving as me, I mean can a single guy like myself get results from your site?? I only am trying the silver to see and if I see potential, you will get more $$ from me.
Its all about marketing and how well you market yourself. Looked at your ad and it comes across very well. The photo is good, one or two more showing a bit more of your body ( most ladies already know what a cock looks like, it's the body and the brain we are interested in) .... Honestly.... if your looking for a 5' 9" blond with perfect hooters and a bi girlfriend..... not going to happen (besides I keep all of them for Ted and I :-) .... if your expectations are a little more realistic.. and your more into couples... you have a chance.... Sandi
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Hi Sandi Are there ads other than direct e mail ads and if so how do we get to them? Thanks Bob
The ads for the magazine are also online on the blue drop down bar under "magazine" ... you can read the PDF file there at least a couple of weeks before the magazine is delivered to the stores, BUT you need to be a Gold Member to read them...
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Wondering why our ad stays on the first page and says updated today when we did not update it?
If you login using the option that says " Log into Member's Area And; move my Ad to the front of the Searches:" that is what it does... if you do not want to move it use the "
Log into Member's Area And; Don't move my Ad:" option :-)
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I have resent my Password to myself a half dozen time and it has still not arrived... what's up?
Sound like you typed your Email address into my database incorrectly. Try sending yourself and Email to the address you are trying to use. If you get it, you are using a valid Email Address... if you don't get it... The Email Address you are using is incorrect.
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How long should it take to get my Login and Password Emailed out?
Emails are sent by my Email Robot and are sent immediately. It can take up to a couple of hours for your Service Provider to process your incoming mail, but in a perfect world you should get your Email within minutes.
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I would like to exchange Links with Sandi. How do I do that?
EASY, just click HERE for instructions
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I forgot to write down pay login and password. Can you please send it to me again.
NO :-), but you can send it to yourself. Just click HERE
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How long should it take to get a reply if I send an Email to Sandi?
I get hundreds of emails a days and although I always answer them all, it takes precious time away from working on my site. If you have not heard back from me in 48 hours ( excluding weekends), assume your Email went to "Email Heaven (or is it HELL) and please resend it.
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What hours are your office open?
We are generally in the office from 9 am until 4:30 pm Mon to Thurs And; Fridays we close around noon. We can not believe how many times the office phone rings late at night. Working out of our house makes it hard not to answer night calls, but we do still want to have a life. We do have call ID on that line so we know who calls BUT you must leave a message in order for us to you call back. When we return calls all we say is "It's Sandi (or Ted) from Tryst" or just "It's Sandi (or Ted) Andersen". As a general rule you are best to call during regular business hours. If we are out of the office during the day for some reason we try to leave the time when we will return.
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Come on, Is there REALLY a "Sandi"?
Yes there is AND there REALLY is A Ted too. We have been very happily married since 1987 and before you ask, that REALLY is me on to front page of my site!
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I am looking for Ted and Sandi's new e-mail address. I got a letter to look for it on the site, but I could not find it. I need it for their N;awlins in November registration.
Thanks!
Tess
That is EASY... it is SandiORTed with the @ sign and then TrystMag and a . and then Com ... No spaces... and I am writing it this way so the spiders can't look at this page and start sending me tons of spam again.... Which is why I had to change it in the first place :-) Sandi
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Hello Sandi,
We recently posted a ad up on your site, and we did it in a hurry with intentions of updating it later when we had more time.I just realized i could not update till august 6 ? Wanted to ad some pics, and update our ad a little ?
Can you help so we don't have to wait till next week ?
TY
The easiest thing for you to do would be to Email me with your ad number... I will delete it for you and then you can place it again... Sandi
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I am looking for a site where I will be ordered by my Mistress or master to perform fellatio on groups of males while I am dressed in lace panties and a bra. I will swallow all cum as per my master or mistress orders
Sorry, but my site is primarily for Swingers... I'm not quite sure what type of site you are looking for, but there must be hundreds of them somewhere... Sandi
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What advice can you offer a single Ontario Boy. Specifically should I seek out a swinging partner to be more successful ?
I always treat a female partner like a lady. It is not negotiable in my book. Some of your answers re do you swing with singles said a lot of Good about you. It was reassuring to someone who is seeking a good way to get his feet wet.
Perhaps that is not the greatest way to say it. Yes I am very much a novice.
I like and respect couples but a single swinging friend seems the best way to begin
It is ALWAYS easier to find a swinging partner if you already have a partner but there are still lots of couple out there looking for single guys so don't give up... It is just a lot harder job for single males looking than anyone else will truthfully tell you... and I ALWAYS tell the truth... no matter how hard it is... Sandi
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Sandi my wife and I would love to post some nude pictures of her on the Internet. Can you recommend a few good sites that are simple to use and don't require your own website to do so?
You can post them on my site in my "Danielle's Dream Girls" section. If you send me 15 photos, you get a free Gold membership for a month... Sandi
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Dear Sandi: First of all, let me say that you are an very attractive woman. I hope you don't mind me asking you this. I was wondering if you had any friends that would want a video shot of their sexual encounters? I am a professional cameraman who has been in the biz for the last 24 years. It's a fantasy of mine to do this. Of course , discretion, respect, and safety assured and expected. I really enjoy your site. Thanks!
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why is swing canada completely free and you only give us bronze members only 1 page we could spread the word quick start being competitive like everyone else
Good question.... maybe swing canada can afford to pay all of the expenses of running a site out of their own pockets.... based on the fine print on their site...
All we ask of you is that you take the time to answer all of the questions and upload some photos to make our site the place to meet erotic couples. The site will remain free until the the value of the contacts and promotions is worth the membership fee. Even then, we have created ways to remain on SwingCanada.com for FREE and travel with us for FREE.
I don't think they plan on being free for much longer... They can't it costs a lot of money to run a quality site.... If by competitive (which I think I am) you mean free, see my comments above about the costs of running a quality site.... .... Sandi
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Sandi, you have a great site here. As a couple new couple in the lifestyle we really like it. We have however one small gripe... We're from the NYC area. Your site has a TON of Canadian ads, and some upstate NY... But the NYC ads are few and far between.
I could not agree more, but by deleting all non current ads I have created my own monster (some sites that I am a member of still have my untouched ad on-line the I placed 2 1/2 years ago) All I can say is tell your friends to place their ad as well... other sites have come and gone (some almost overnight) but I have been on-line non stop since early 95 and I'm not going anywhere but up :-) ... Sandi
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