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Kissing A Woman

Sexy swinger couple kissing

Never Ask a Woman’s permission to start Kissing

One of the worst rookie mistakes that a man can make when he starts meeting women and dating them (and this is also true in the swinging lifestyle) is to ask permission for a kiss. I get it, you want to respect her boundaries – but it could give her
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Voyeur At Heart

Swinging Couple getting ready for Voyeur Sex

Wanting To Look At Women When They Dress Sexy, But Does She Want Me To? Voyeur at Heart

Dear Frank,
I can’t help but look at women when they dress so sexy. I mean like being downtown on a Saturday night when women are dressed hot (and very revealing) during the summers. Sometimes, women dress with very little on, leaving nothing to the imagination.  Do women know that everything shows? Do they want me to
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How to Talk to Women

Pickup Women

Talking to women can be paralyzing for many men, there is a lot of pressure to pickup women. You feel like you have to lead with some sort of benefit they might get if they were to date you (and most guys think it has something to do with money).

Others start off with flattering words to the woman, but depending on how it’s said, it can possibly come off as creepy or just a tired routine that she’s heard a million times before.
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BDSM Etiquette

BDSM Dom in black stockings with fetish belt

This will be just a quick overview of some elements of etiquette in the BDSM scene, some things you may need to know when interacting with the BDSM community. Bear in mind that some things are different from place to place and group to group, but this article should serve as some good general guidelines. This guide may continue to grow over time.

Discretion, Always

Just as in the swinging community, discretion is vitally important in the BDSM scene.
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